Being a trained medium, I sometimes find it difficult to ‘see’ spirit guides; they can hide from me when I ask questions they would rather not answer or if they have to give me information that I need to work out for myself.
However, they are quite willing to help me with evidence for a private reading where a client is in a need to know situation, or a memory from the past has been forgotten.
Memories are a great way for a medium to forge links from a family member or friend who has passed over. It is reasonable to say these types of details that mediums could not know.
When giving a private reading, sometimes the messages given from spirit guides can be hilarious as they too have a sense of fun. Usually they like to be a little cheeky to ensure a person who is feeling low can smile and relax, opening up the energies that allow me as a medium to give more evidence.
Guidance from spirit guides can be a difficult and long process if the person sitting across from is sat there silently wishing to speak to one special person, this closes the energies and can hold up the guidance coming from my guides who will help to bring through a loved one.
Guides are there to help relatives and friends to bring through personal messages , some find it easy to as they are determined to pass on to their siblings or friends that they are in a good place and not suffering any more.
When giving a medium a message in a private reading relatives are always eager to let the sibling know they have visited all the family members making sure they are alright, especially if there has been a birthday or an important family affair.
It is impossible for a medium to say who come through on a vibration of energy to give details in a private reading. A relative or friend has to adapt quickly to reach my vibration for me to pick up what they are saying.